Tarnished,
Here's repeating what Julie said:
"I can appreciate your wanting to do anything in your power to make your marriage work and to make your husband happy. What concerns me is that he doesn't seem to want to make that same effort."
I'm afraid I agree with her 200%. The anguish that you seem to be going through is something I can't ever imagine putting my wife or anyone I care about through. Your husband simply needs to deal with your saying "No" and move on with your relationship.
If you wake up tomorrow morning, look in the mirror and see Pam Anderson staring back at you in the reflection and your self esteem jumps way high, that won't change your mind about swinging, will it?
I think this is more your husband's problem than yours. |