I'm new to this forum however, me and my girlfriend are going through something similar (As far as boundries). She's actually the one that brought up the swing lifestyle.. I have done both
FMF & MFM but never a group party. Her and I origanally REALLY
loved the idea but as time goes on and we read other peoples
issues, problems and regrets it has put many questions into both
of our minds..
OUR concerns are wether we are BOTH ready for this wonderful lifestyle. One issue is that she(Lea) is bouncing back and forth about being able to handle me fucking another woman, when I tell her that I really want us to enjoy the experiance together and if she's not going to enjoy and be happy
I won't do it, then she says "no I really want to do it"..
Honestly I really don't know if it's worth screwing up a great relationship over.....
Point is, and I hope I'm not being too forward but I agree with everyone else. I really don't think you guys are ready or that you
will ever be and you should NOT be pushed into anything you don't want to do.. If your hubby insist and doesn't seem to care enough about your feelings then F... H..!...
Got it!!
Good luck and do what's right for your self!!
-- Dave --
