I can appreciate your wanting to do anything in your power to make your marriage work and to make your husband happy. What concerns me is that he doesn't seem to want to make that same effort. His excuses for not going to counseling with you are not good reasons, only excuses. Perhaps he needs to be challenged? He needs to have someone tell him he is wrong, something that it doesn't seem you are willing to do, because you want to make him happy.
Sometimes doing what is best for people IS NOT giving them what they want. What it comes down to is that he NEEDS to be in marriage counseling with you, whether or not he wants to be... and his response of not doing so just shows that he doesn't have the same desire to do what is best for your marriage that you obviously have. |