Going back to what has been said before in your other threads. You guys really should not even be TALKING about swinging. There are way too many issues that need to be taken care of and I personally don't think they are YOUR personal issues but issues between you as a couple. I know that you are seeing a therapist on your own. Have you talked to him about going with you? Marriage counseling?
And beyond that, even if everything else was ok, "I'll try" is definately not good enough.... and to be honest I don't think your guy is good enough for you. You deserve someone who will actually treat you as a person and as someone who has a say in the relationship not someone who has "issues' that need to be cleared up so that HE can have his way. |