Tarnished,
As for the issue you brought up of no kissing, but maybe an okay on sex. I may disagree with everyone , I don't know.
To start off Love is an emotional binding involving trust and faith in one another and does not necessarily involve kissing or sex. There are ,however, many times one could kiss someone without an emotional attachment. You may kiss friends on greetings , with joy, or when parting without emotional ties. If you have sex with someone in a cheating situation that is something very personal and goes way beyond just kissing. Therefore , if you would swing with your spouse you would have to separate the difference between sex and love. That said , i don't think kissing is nearly as personal as sex. After all aren't body fluids exchanged during sex. In society not much is made of kissing , but sex is another story( by many sex is considered your ultimate gift or pleasure to you mate). If a spouse only kissed people I doubt you would have concerns. Again, I wish you well. |