Tarnished,
Just out of curiousity, is your hubby advocating that you BOTH swing or is he into it more for himself?
I'm not attacking you or him so please don't misconstrue what I'm writing, but swinging sounds like a real bad idea for you two right now, and I'm getting the opinion he's wanting to push you into it way against your will.
I can't believe that kissing will be your only hangup. Watching him put his bone into another woman probably will cause "limit" issues as well, don'tcha think? Anyway, if I were him, I'd certainly agree to your request. If he knows that if you can't get by that, there will be no chance of swinging, I'd guess he'll come around. |