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yawanna · 04-19-2004, 03:42 PM

If he can't give you absolutes and stick to them.. don't go there

I dont' know how many times we can say this........you go in... AS A SOLID COUPLE... who have talked and talked and researched and researched every possible scenario and even then... you will come across situations that require an off the cuff decision. Shit happens and it shouldn't land in your lap and stay there for all eternity, or long enough to wreak total havoc on and perhaps ruin your relationship.

Don't swing. Y'all are no where near a coupledom that could do that. nothing wrong with that. Enjoy each other if you can.

And..there are any number of couples who will swing with you two right now... and walk off not caring a whit about your relationship. They are more concerned for themselves, and notwithstanding the majority of swinger couples who DO care for other's relationships...this is exactly what i believe you two need to do....care more for each other and leave swinging out of it for the time being.

04-19-2004, 03:42 PM	#5 (permalink)
yawanna Has Left the Building Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,176 Location: Canada Status: married female	If he can't give you absolutes and stick to them.. don't go there I dont' know how many times we can say this........you go in... AS A SOLID COUPLE... who have talked and talked and researched and researched every possible scenario and even then... you will come across situations that require an off the cuff decision. Shit happens and it shouldn't land in your lap and stay there for all eternity, or long enough to wreak total havoc on and perhaps ruin your relationship. Don't swing. Y'all are no where near a coupledom that could do that. nothing wrong with that. Enjoy each other if you can. And..there are any number of couples who will swing with you two right now... and walk off not caring a whit about your relationship. They are more concerned for themselves, and notwithstanding the majority of swinger couples who DO care for other's relationships...this is exactly what i believe you two need to do....care more for each other and leave swinging out of it for the time being. Last edited by yawanna : 04-19-2004 at 03:48 PM.