Like has been said, everyone has their quirks. We have some boundries about what we will and won't do with anyone else because we feel we need to keep something between us that we don't share with others. Anal is one of them. The other is wearing a condom, for safe sex reasons and even if we know the other couple is 100% D&D free, cleansliness.
We too are new to this so we haven't had a whole lot of different couples yet, but even after an episode with others we have sex because we are still so charged, and although some guys do, I don't like "sloppy seconds". If another preson can't respect that, then they aren't right for us. And we won't be pressured into doing something we don't want to. There are plenty more people out there.
For the most part though, everybody we've met has been very open to respecting our wishes as we do theirs. And those that aren't are not worth our time. This should be fun, and everybody should go home without any regrets.
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"God created sex. Priests created marriage." ~ Voltaire
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