HOLD IT RIGHT THERE MR NAUGHTY!!!
We are on the same page as far as anal-on the VERY RARE occasion it happens it's ONLY with him.
However, as far as oral-he did not mention that I have VERY SEVERE TMJ and my jaw could lock open(or shut
) if I'm not careful. That is the reason I don't go blowjob crazy. I think it would probably take the fun out of it if I lopped one off one day. <EG>