Welcome and ditto on the Dito
We 'anal' (new slogan??) but as Mr says 'her ass is mine ONLY'.
Very few swingers anal as part of the play...now oral....that's a bit of a prerequisite until things move on. Sort of a party starter.
If she doesn't want to give.. no one is going to put it in her face and demand. If she doesn't want to receive, she can just say so.
'No thanks'. And move on to other activities. I don't think these will be 'deal breakers' at all.
We wish you both well and lots of fun
