When I first read your post, I had some great answers planned...scrolled on down, and Darn!! Others had beat me to it. So here I sit with little more than a Dito to add to the others.
Bottom line...don't worry about it. There are all sorts of people out there that have what others might think of as little quirky likes and dislikes and they make allowances for each other. In other words, each and every one of us has a quirk thrown in here and there.
There is far more to the swinging experience than anal or oral sex. I'd only suggest you discuss this freely and openly with potential partners to eliminate any last second confusion about your personal boundaries. I think you will find that absolutely honesty upfront is the most basic key to any successful encounter.
And wrnakedru is right...with a little more info, you might get more specific responses. Care to share?
- EBF
