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Curious&scared · 04-15-2004, 09:48 AM

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Avantgarden38
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We are probably at risk saying, in our opinion, that couples who only desire a fmf threesome aren't entirely honest or comfortable with the swinging environment. Someone somewhere in the relationship has an issue. Not that there is anything wrong with that issue, we are just noting that it exists. Many men fear another man it seems.

I couldn't agree more. The reason we are looking (we've not had an experience yet) for a 3some is because Mr. Curious doesn't feel he'd be comfortable seeing his Mrs. with another man. I, in turn, wouldn't be comfortable not knowing if he was ok with the situation. We've actually been in contact with a couple and could have had our first experience this week, but decided that the two of us weren't on the same page and decided against it. So, we will go on looking for that elusive female.

04-15-2004, 09:48 AM	#15 (permalink)
Curious&scared Registered Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 8 Location: Ohio Status: Couple	Yep [QUOTE]Originally posted by Avantgarden38 [B] We are probably at risk saying, in our opinion, that couples who only desire a fmf threesome aren't entirely honest or comfortable with the swinging environment. Someone somewhere in the relationship has an issue. Not that there is anything wrong with that issue, we are just noting that it exists. Many men fear another man it seems. I couldn't agree more. The reason we are looking (we've not had an experience yet) for a 3some is because Mr. Curious doesn't feel he'd be comfortable seeing his Mrs. with another man. I, in turn, wouldn't be comfortable not knowing if he was ok with the situation. We've actually been in contact with a couple and could have had our first experience this week, but decided that the two of us weren't on the same page and decided against it. So, we will go on looking for that elusive female.