For us, we don't go to swing clubs, but when we start talking with couples on-line and want to start the conversation, we just mainly start off by saying hi, and introducing ourselves, and just starting conversation to get to know each other, before we talk about sex and swinging, we feel that we want to get to know each other as people first. But mainly talk about where we live, our ages, and other interests like music, and things of that nature.
