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Originally posted by good times
It appears we are in the minority here, but we take the position that we don't need to use condoms but will if requested.
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I don't know if we're in the minority here (seems like it) but we agree with you.
Our attitude is that if the husband of the other couple wants me (Mrs.) to give him head without it covered or his wife wants my husband to lick her coochie without it covered, why use anything when it comes to actual intercourse? If anyone has anything, it's most likely already spread around to everybody.
Think about it, with unprotected oral sex it seems that the concern is with the mans ejaculate. STD's such as gonorrhea are in the mans penis. (That's why it's called The Drip)
From the other postings I have read on this subject, the odds of catching anything is pretty low and HIV is almost non-existent. It seems that the only thing you are likely to get is something you probably already have anyway.
Please, this is only what WE believe and not meant to say that everyone should believe this way.
There is a risk to this lifestyle and it's all a matter of what level of risk you want to take. Let's be honest, except for monogamy, the only other way to be 99.99% safe is to have everyone wear a full body latex suit. What fun is that?
I remember reading on another post that someone stated that they choose to swing with others who had been married for quite a while. That's what we do also. We feel that by choosing others who are fairly new to this and have been married for a while (10+ years) and have kids, the odds of catching anything are pretty low.
I'm not saying that there is no need for condoms. If both the man and woman are fertile then, yes, use them. I have been tied but my husband is a fertile as they get. I would NEVER let him have sex with a woman who was not on birth control without one on!
Anyone else here with the same attitude?
Mrs. LCJTSD