Hello again. And thanks for all of your thoughtful replies. I haven't responded on this thread because my wife would rather that we don't air our 'dirty laundry', so to speak.
Where we stand now. After I told my attorney to file and began to move out of our bedroom to a downstairs bedroom she finally came around. However, it came down to either I let her do this guy every few months or we get out of the LS. I think that is unreasonable. I still haven't gotten together with my 'friend'. That is over. Whether this marriage is over or not is still up in the air. She is looking at June or July as another 'get together' with this person. It won't be a group thing, I said that was out and she finally agreed. It will be a one on one somewhere, if it goes at all. As the time gets closer my anxiety goes up.
I agree with all of the advice of the above. I can't believe that my wife would hang on to this guy so tenaciously. I'm not telling her that she can't screw someone else. I'm just saying that we went to far by each of us going solo, now let's stick to couples.
Thanks for you insights.
Mr 2luvs. |