JC2You,
I can't help but wonder if the wife of this couple is trying to make you uncomfortable somehow. It appears the both of them have certainly succeeded, and you might be right, your boyfriend will never officially tell them he doesn't wish to be friends. But, I guess you can tell him you simply aren't interested in the friendship and if he wants to do things with them, to do so without you. I agree with most of the other posters that he would probably tell you the truth and no sexual activity would go on.
However, I also gather he wouldn't mind a swinging experience again either. It doesn't sound like you are remotely interested in it, so he'll have to deal with your feelings. Or are you just not interested in swinging with this couple and you might entertain it later if you clicked with the right people? That's definitely something to discuss with your bf just to get his reaction, assuming you'd be OK with it, don't you think?
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