In my opinion you are definately NOT too controlling! You are not selfish or wrong in any way. Your wife is going against your wishes which you made very clear a long time ago.
I do not like the word "negotiate' which you are using. Swinging, playing, sex etc is not about negotiation it is about shared interests and wishes, about a couple having fun together.
Your wife seems very unreasonable and not willing to listen to you. She is the selfish one here.
I wish you strength for the months to come, you will need it!
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Today love eachother more than yesterday but less than tomorrow
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