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I know they have their own issues (probably even more) but I still get nervous and stupid around "the beautiful ones".
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yes, they do..and chances are they aren't even there to meet anyone more than socially. Up here they are called 'posers'.
A few clubs cater to them, at least one other club allows them as part of an overall swinger environment.
Granted...no one is expected to meet and play everytime. The posers are the ones who rarely, if ever, get sexual with anyone. One club up here is total posers, yet states they are a swinger club. You just don't know til you go and see what goes on at a club.....or doesn't
I also respectfully understand certain 'cliques' being established amongst like minded..and even friendships developing. And even longterm play relationships. As has been broached before..how does one move on..or does one?
We are in this to meet more and new people, whilst retaining to some degree our initial swinger relationships. It's all about growing and experiencing, with no hard feelings wherever possible.
Supposedly 'beautiful people' are, IMHO for the most part (excluding a few
) there for the ambience and not much more. So not mixing with them, is no big loss
You wouldn't be missing any part of 'swinging'.