With us when someone, be it friend or family asks, we just tell them we were out with friends, or if we know we are going to be entertaining friends to swing with, we often tell them that we have friends coming to visit. Usually our friends and family when they know we are going to have company, they usually are pretty respectful and don't call so we can give our guests our undivided attention. There are times when Truck's family does get nosey and we just tell them that we have friends from out of town visiting. Which sometimes isn't always a lie. We just don't go into details about what happened over the weekend. lol