it's kinda of hard to say, who might be in the right. i would suggest. tell her if she still wants to play. go for it. but only if you pick who ever and when ever you want. then just wait for her responce. it is true when couples swing it is not meant to hurt anyone. both should be ok with it. or it should not be done. my wife and i both play alone at times and we are ok with it. but my wife only playes with other ladies. and we at times have them spend the night. but thats just us. if your wife knows how you feel then she should stop. if she doesnt. you my friend have some real probs there. cause it would sound like she could be falling for this guy.
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