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Originally posted by Mr&Mrs-naughty
Do you swing with people that you are not really attracted to so your partner can fullfill their desire or do you just stay away? |
That would be what is called "Taking one for the team".
You will probably get a lot of comments from people who say, Nope, we are either both attracted and play or we don't play at all.
We have been in your situation before and yes, I took one for the team, if that's what you want to call it. I personally had no problem with it...the lady of the couple was extremely HOT and the gentleman, well...he did absolutely nothing for me but I really couldn't pass up the opprotunity to see Ted with her. As it turned out, even though it was not one of our most enjoyable play sessions, there were times during that I still play back in my mind and look upon with fondness.
I will say that it was the gentlman's personality that allowed me to be able to do this. Had he been an asshole, it would not have mattered how hot she was, how much Ted wanted her or how much I wanted to see him with her, it would have been a no go.
We are probably totally different than most where this is concerned in that it's really no skin off of either of our noses to allow the other to have someone they want. It dosen't hurt us in any way and we both receive pleasure from the other's pleasure, regardless of if we are getting any personal physical pleasure out of the encounter or not.
I guess we look at it as just sex and even the worst we have had was pretty damn good so our answer to your question would be yes, we would.
Teresa