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I'm a little confused. Maybe it's just an age thing, I don't know, but I hear all these stories about the lady who met this guy with the ripples stomach and the bulging biceps and they had great intense sex yada yada yada Or the lady with the flat stomach, big breast you know, built. yada yada yada.

I never see those people, do you? I see woman who are size 14 and men who have a little belly hanging over their belts. I don't see these "buff" bods.

Maybe my hubby and I go to the wrong places, but I think we are just average and so are the people we meet. Hubby's 60 pounds heavier from when we married, and a whole lot more grey with less hair and Lets face, I was 92 pounds when I got married. 4 kids later, 125. I'm certainly not built like I used to.

I'm not complaining, hey, it goes with age and I earned every stretch mark on my hinney. I'm just wondering if we are unique, if it's a bunch of fantasy, or are we just older and going to the wrong spots. By the way, I'm approaching the 40 somethings and hubby's there.