GirlieZ,
I can't judge you, but I if my wife had done the same thing, I would have been pissed. I'm assuming it was a typical couples club open to the public as opposed to a private houseparty/orgy.
When we first went to a couple's club, we were a little uneasy but common sense told us if we didn't like it, we could just leave. Trust me, I'd bet a million bucks that once you step through the door you'll be wondering why you were thinking such nutty thoughts. The most you'll likely see is a little topless dancing and some kissypoos, other than that, just people sitting at tables or the bar drinking and socializing.
You should apologize to your hubby for freaking out and offer to go again. If you start acting freaky on the way there, just get a grip on reality, tell yourself your a normal person and that if you don't like the place, you can leave. Trust me you Will NOT BE ATTACKED! It's not like your going bungee jumping!
For some reason, this reminds me of teaching my wife how to ride a motorcycle, I get her a Honda XR100, explain over and over the throttle, brakes and clutch. She knows how to drive a standard auto. Sure enough, she clutches the handgrips, inadvertently cracking the throttle open, releases the clutch and freezes, luckily the ground was wet, able to knock her off the bike before she crashed into the side of the house, left a big mark in the yard. Ughhhhh! Well she eventually learned how to ride.
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