The same thing happened to me.. before we ever even attempted going to a club actually. The club we were interested in was a private group and we had been talking to the hosts about trying to meet them or another couple from the club to act as our "sponsors" to the club. An opportunity came up where many of the couples were meeting out one night to shoot pool and they invited us to join them there. We made it to the bar parking lot and I did the same thing. I just couldn't go in. I freaked out and we went home. We did later finally meet another couple from that club for dinner and they did become our sponsors and when we went to the club we enjoyed ourselves greatly.
Since I've been single I've actually repeated the same thing with a club I had been to once. I'm still not sure how I convinced myself to go to the club alone the first time I went. But when I tried to go a second time I made the 45 minute drive to the club only to get there and chicken out.
Sometimes things just don't feel right for whatever reason, and if that's the case you shouldn't follow through (at least that's my opinion).
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