Anal sex is the most likely act to transmit aids because the rectum almost always gets small tears, giving access to the blood stream. Both of us don't really care for it anyway, so write off that risk.
We consider the activity of a couple we're interested in. The less activity, the less risk of STDs.
The time we've known a couple is not so important to us but how much we trust what they have to say about their history is.
We also believe that reading eyes can tell us a lot about anyone. If we "like their eyes" we're much more likely to trust someone. "White eyes," the Native American term for white men, has nothing to do with the color of their skin but their propensity to lie. My grandfather was much better at "reading eyes" than I am.
I think the best advice in this thread (sorry, forgot who wrote it) is "find a couple with whom you feel you don't need to worry about STDs and use condoms anyway."
Mr. Alura |