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Originally posted by GirlieZ
Has anyone had a similar experience and finally went to a club and loved it? What are the clubs like? HELP!! |
I don't know if you'll find my first time experiences helpful at all but I'm more than happy to share.
I've had plenty of fright in my day...even going into a strip club for the first time
I think we passed by the place around six times and left the front door twice. <blushing> I felt terrible about being such a pain in the butt but was relieved to have a partner so considerate of my feelings. When we did finally go, it was almost as instantaneous as your decision not to!
It turned out allright after all.
Bought ten laps much to Mike's annoyance.
The swing club wasn't as scary, but the thought of it sure was.
We went with another couple the very first time to an on-premise party in Texas and they pretty much held our hands for the most part. We didn't have sex with anyone just mingled and met people and conversed with them. I was really afraid of porn star type women "taking away my man"..
Oh! The monsters I created in my head! This was so not the case. People looked like normal folks to my surprise! Lucky for us the hostess was very accomodating to newbies and this club wasn't as "clique-y" as many are. We really felt no pressure to go down the hall to the bedrooms although people all around us were. So I can honestly tell you it was a little like going to a party any of your friends might throw where a couple might go to a bedroom upstairs for a "quickie". The only thing that reminded us that we were at a "swingers" party was the number of women running around in lingerie after 11 and more men in robes than not. That took a little getting used to, but there were a few couples who remained "dressed"
for the most part. I cannot say we loved it the first time around but we did enjoy the experience the second time already knowing just what to expect. By our fourth visit it felt more like a gathering amongst friends with new couples to meet.
We've visited many clubs on our travels and they have run the gamut from "hotel bar scenes" replete with access to hotel rooms upstairs, to house parties to true "pleasure palaces."
The club we have grown to love has been our own.
;-*
Slutty Wife