We really look at the middle responses as about equal -- couple months, couple weeks -- same, same.
It's about comfort levels with the partner and it's my decision. I generally use the same rationalle I would if I were a single girl dating again -- if I'd go bareback if I were single, I'll trust him now.
I can't really describe the method I use to decide -- I'm not sure if it's a look or a feeling or what.
Most simply put, some guys get to go bareback and some don't -- and I decide. A sure way to make sure you don't go bareback is to insist that you
never wear a condom or make some other lame excuse. Virgins almost always get to go bareback facelick