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Originally posted by yawanna
The couples we know of who practice mentoring in the fashion of taking other couples under their wing and inviting them to all kinds of clubs and events, tend to tutor them to their style of swinging, all the while saying 'it's totally up to you', but making sure the new couple are being schooled in their version of swinging. |
I can only comment on what we have encountered and it has never been anything of this nature. Sure we have run across pushy people, however due to the knowledge that we have gained on this board we learned ways to remove ourselves gracefully from a situation that tried to steer us from our goals and fantasies. It basically boils down to what you 'allow' yourselves' to be drawn in to. If something doesn't set right with either of you, then it is time to talk about it and set new ground rules.