Let me be the first to offer to check anyone here for that "new car smell"...
I can see what Yawanna is saying, but I haven't run into it... Then again, we've been pretty lucky for the most part in our experiences. Then again, with the first couple we played with, I guess we just decided to leave when it became obvious that they wanted something different than what we wanted...
Being new, you'll probably welcome someone to "show you the ropes" so to speak. You'll want someone to break the ice and suggest the perfect strip-dominos game. But after a while, your swinging becomes more yours'. You take control of the direction. When we felt our "mentor" couple wasn't comfortable with that, we simply went our way.
It frist became obvious when the male half looked at me and said, "I'll bet I can guess that your fantasy is to have someone fuck your wife while you're at work."
"ummm... No..." I said.
We started drifting then and eventually just lost reason to contact them... Okay - it wasn't THAT easy... But - yes... Yawanna is correct, I guess, is my rambling point... Let them mentor you, but be careful not to let them mold you...
And that offer for the "new car smell" still stands...
Spoomonkey