Thank you for your input.
I'd like to respond to some of your comments.
We do have two ads. I think it takes not only time but alot of guts to send an introduction and wait to see if you will be rejected. I always try to be kind and respectful when returning a "thanks but no thanks" reply.
I do not want to come across shallow or pompous in my ads...I truly worry about this. Yet, I feel it is best to let people know from the start what we expect. And wanting people who are not overweight is just one of the criterion we use. We have many.
Yes, I'm a particular person, but this is true in all aspects of my life.
You said, "Is weight really as much of a deal breaker for you as crass talk is for me?" If you're serious, yes it may be. I use "cock" and "cunt" (I presume these are the C words you speak of) when I am comfortable with someone and feeling cocky...ooops!...sorry Yawanna.
I learn something each day. Who knows what my perspective will be next week.
Mrs. LM