I thought this was the lifestyle for each and everyone. WE dont like large overweight folks either, or many other things some folks may list in there "profiles". We dont like a lot of hair, or hairy areas...but that our preference and we tailor our searches to those folks in that criteria.....
We have been blatently lied to, and told things recently that were just not true. HWP to us "is what WE (Stacie and I find Height weight prop.) Not everyone is going to be or expected to be attracted to each persons they meet. HEll..Im 6'4" and 230 lbs, my wife is 5'0" and right at 100 lbs, we are not HWP to each other

, but we know what WE like.
We also look like Mutt and Jeff...hahahah
But again this is OUR preference...and those folks that dont fit into our choice of playmates, well...those are the ones we dont share with. HWP has many meaning to us..but for us physical attraction to US is what we are looking for!