From the sounds of it, it's not your bf you need to worry about. It sounds like he really does care for you and is willing to walk away from swinging to be with you. And Yes, someone can do this if they are willing to. I think that most people here will tell you they would walk away in a heartbeat if their partner asked them to.
What really bothers me here is this other couple.
1. Has your bf been with them alone since his divorce? Ask him.
2. They obviously want to be with him again... and from the sounds of it are ok with you joining in. Has he talked to them about this? Again, ask him.
3. The hardest thing. You obviously aren't comfortable with this couple and won't be for understandable reasons.... they sound very pushy. You need to make sure that your bf knows this and make it clear that you do not wish to be around this couple.
The thing that really bothers me here is that you said that he was with this couple without his wife's knowledge previously... this bothers me because it makes me wonder if he won't do the same thing to you.
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