Botcpl, you are really way off on all acounts...I am sorry. I have a better relationship with my wife then most people I have ever seen, and I plan on being with her forever. I am also planning on being a restaurant manager by the end of this year. Its not something we feel we have to do to "spice up" anything, its just something TO do, and if it didn't happen, no big deal.. How do I know I won't die tommorow anyway? Age means nothing to me, and I don't drink anyway. I wish I could have a child, but we have not been able to yet. Do you know any 19 year old men that really wants a child? DO NOT assume me to be just like any other man, and her just to be like any other women...we are actually quite different.
Oh and Julie, we are doing this separate, but we always keep the lines of communication open...that is the most important thing. If either of us had a problem, the other would know. There is no disregard of the other involved.
Monolith