Monolith
I ditto Dian of Sensalicious...
What you are looking for is not out of step with the lifestyle. In fact, you sort of define the lifestyle as you go along. Sure - how you define it determines who may or may not want to play with you, but I've found that swinging is always an individual work in progress; and no one is ever painting exactly the same picture.
For us, we figure we just don't have time for close friendships with others that we'd like to have, so our "adventures" tend to be with couples that we know more casually. Our fingers are crossed that as our life settles down we can find more long-term friendships and form an intimate little circle of friends (that seems like the ideal set up). But - who knows how this will all play out. We are having a great time and as long as you and your wife are mature, communicative, sensitive to each other's needs, we have no doubt that you guys will as well.
Good luck
Mr & Mrs Spoomonkey |