[sexypairca]

As newbies ourselves, we wondered the same thing before going to our first club. We have been to two different clubs (both off-premise) and I found them to be a relaxed environment.

The first had ice breaker games and everyone only participated to the extent that they were comfortable with. The second had host couples that would introduce you to other couples if you were interested. Everyone wore name tags but ours had something different on them so that everyone knew that we had not been there before. This was a nice conversation starter.

Don't worry that you don't drink- coffee bottled water etc. was fairly common. As far as the dancing goes, you don't need to be on the dance floor to meet new people.

Personally I found the clubs to be inviting and would go back any time. Good luck and have fun.

"A" the newbie wife.