we have 5 teenage daughters, haved a vascectomy and Tam ha had a partial hystectomy so cannot reproduce. We are a combined family with two older boys and a 2 year old grandaughter also.
However to contribute my opinion, to take a risk of pregnancy swinging is a pretty serious situation in my mind. But once again I tend to minimize the risks because they are mostly overblown. Aids, genital herpes, falling in love with swingers, yeast infections, running into stalkers etc. is just a matter of avoiding by using commonly known techniques and caution. My sexually active teen use the depovera or whatever it i called implant and it is pretty darn effective. Of course one out of a thousand or so will experience negative side effects but people buy lottery tickets by the gross to win and hardly one in a million actually gets even anywhere near financially independant doing that.
Dont take me wrong. The conversatoin is worth talkng about thoroughly but remember that between the pill, DPV, rubbers, pulling out, oral sex, and soft swinging it just aint gonna happen most likely.
If it does then deal with it.
I wouldn't lose any sleep over it. I have never known swingers to impregnate each other.
Swinging is a simple release from the tensions of everyday life. To be all concerned about everything that can go wrong would seem to have the opposite effect.
If you are fertile then do what is necesary. You can still have tons of fun being safe.
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