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Perhaps a wife or SO uses the board, the information and responses, to better understand themselves or their spouse's
interest in the subject. It may help resolve family problems.
Remember, swinging is far from being an accepted mainstream activity. Society, religion, family, STD's , moral beliefs , etc. , etc.
Also, there is much more on the board than swinging. People may learn much here about personal relationships and how to deal with them. Others may just be voyiers who are on the board just as you may have in a club.
Someone who is not a swinger may also have thoughts and insights to help others that are on the fringes and cannot resolve the conflicts within themselves. Just as this particular thread has revealed.
There are probably a number of non-swingers on the board that have contributed valuable insights . You cannot just be tunnelvisioned in any aspect of life . Listen to anyone that has something valuable to say. |