I never said anything about her not adding to the conversation, I agreed with much of her post.
My question was as to why a person so against this lifestyle would hang out here, monitoring threads and watching this lifestyle unfold before their eyes. If this had nearly ruined my marriage and had caused me great personal pain, the last thing I would be doing would be hanging out here, having it dangled in front of me.
Its like rubbing salt into a wound.
Of course people are welcome to post their feelings and thoughts, I never disagreed. |