 Selfish
I completely agree with the posters here, especially wrnakedru and Mr. Alura. How incredibly selfish of you! All she wants to do is please you and you completely have taken advantage of this. You have physically not forced her to do anything, but by even your mention of it, you are playing mind games with her and you probably don't even realize it. Many women cannot seperate sex and love. Maybe it's something built in. But just because you can, doesn't mean she should or can. In her mind and heart, because she can't seperate the two, she's incredibly hurt by your mere mention of the idea.
Decide what's more important to you. Your wife with whom you have great sex with and is so committed to your happiness that she would agree to something she doesn't believe is right in her heart just to please you, or destroying that completely because of your selfishness. |