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Originally posted by frenchie
In retrospect, Yes I want this, but not at this cost, so do I stay happy with what she's giving me (making me a taker) or tell her I'm no longer interested when she brings the subect up.... (making me a liar)
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Whoa...you have some serious problems here. I agree with what the others have relayed to you, in paricular, wrnakedru's cut to meat of the matter posting. I'll not repeat what they have said as I ditto them all.
However, what you don't seem to be getting is that from your postings, I see a very self-serving individual and 'making you out a liar' does not stem from saying you are no longer interested when she brings the subject up.... It began when you said your relationship was more important than anything else. Quite frankly, if you valued your relationship over and above anything else, you would
"NOT" be lying when you relay to her that you are no longer interested as that interest is one that could cost you someone you cherish.
My opinion. Do some good hard thinking with the head that is on your shoulders and not the one you zipper up each day.
Best of luck to you both Frenchie, I mean that sincerely, as you are going to need it.
Mrs. O