Hi Frenchie,
Being a victim of rape myself, I understand some of your wife's fears. The first and most important thing that needs to addressed in this situation is getting your wife the help she needs. Find her a rape crisis center, it is never to late to get the help she needs. And. please don't ever pressure or push her into a sexual activity she does not want...in other words you are could be adding to her fears and anxiety, which I hate to say so bluntly but I don't know another way to say it..is a form of rape. If you love and respect your wife, you will give her the help she needs. Good luck to her and you. |