This really isn't the kind of thing you should try to talk her into, especially if she has had traumatic past encounters with unwelcome sexual contact. For her to really enjoy swinging, even if it is with your full blessing, she needs to have the desire to do it herself, otherwise it will not be fulfilling and may even become a trauma that she feels you pushed her into and that would be bad for both of you. You got a good wife the second time around, you should be happy about that and quit while you are ahead. |