 Re: itsy
You have to seriuosly consider what is in your wife's best interest here.
It would seem to me that your wife's past experience will make it very difficult for her to reconcile her attitudes about sex with swinging. I say don't push her at all. Commit to leaving the idea of swinging as a fantasy. If one day she decides that it is something she feels like she can persue with you then you might think of moving forward again.
Pushing her into this will only cause you big problems.
Best of luck to you
~Piggy
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