[sexypairca]

I believe that this would be living dangerously especially when a coworker is involved as Alura pointed out. This type of arrangement does work for some and can be very exciting when it doesn't cause harm to the primary relationship. Unfortunately it is difficult to tell in advance whether it will end up being a point of contention in your marriage. Some things you just can't take back, even if they were a mistake. Tread carefully and have fun in whatever you choose to do.

Annette