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Originally posted by wildwife1010
My husband wants me to go out with this guy who has been flirting with me at work. |
This part concerns me. In addition to the problems it could cause at work, (even if nothing more than gossip) if you decide to end the relationship, it may not be comfortable seeing the other guy every day. Have you considered that it could cause you to have to find another job?
We once made the agreement that we could each have sex with our high school sweethearts, should the opportunity occur, because neither of us had done it back then. It caused us no problems. In fact it was fun because we plotted the "seductions" together over a period of months. Both live a long away, too, which made it easier.
We even had "code names" for the "operations." When my tryst happened, Mrs. Alura prepared us a "Hotel Kit" containing a scented candle, a bottle of wine & glasses, body oil, and some minor goodies. It was great fun. Unfortunately, she wasn't so successful. Her reunion comes up next year, though.
As long as the most important thing in both of your lives is the two of you, you can probably pull it off, laughing all the way to your "Swing Scrapbook." But pick somebody away from work.
Mr. Alura