I think it's going to depend a lot on what club you go to. Some clubs tend to lean more towards actual swapping, while others seem to attract more soft-swinging (exhibitionist/voyeur) type couples. Another factor is the ratio of newbies to experienced (and regulars to that club). If a club has more newbies then the chances are they are going to have less swapping. Same thing if there are more folks at the club who are regulars there and have gotten to know each other and feel comfortable together.
If you want to put a poll together regarding this topic, myself or one of the mods can merge it with this thread, if you'd like.
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