I caught a red flag in your second post when you said that he wanted it all but didn't want another guy in the room but was ok with seperate room play. I would wonder here if this isn't about sharing at all but about him wanting to sow his oats and knowing the only way to do so is to make it seem like you guys are doing something together.
The fact that he doesn't kiss you anymore, makes me wonder if he doesn't enjoy kissing you. I don't believe there are bad kissers just incompatible kissers. I had this problem with my ex, he didn't kiss like I liked so we ended up not really kissing much.
It just sounds to me like there is a lot more talking you guys need to do before you consider swinging again.
|