A question like that right off the bat from others would sure tell me that it's highly unlikely we're going to have enough in common that I would be interested in meeting them.
In fact, [just me and my smart mouth] I would be tempted to answer something along the lines of "Oh, sorry. Didn't realize you were trophy trolling. Actually, we're here because he has such a teenie weanie, I'm trying to find satisfaction somewhere."
Of course, hubby might not be amused at me putting out word like that regarding him. [especially since it is NOT true]
But I agree with you, folks that are actually 'measuring' their attraction to potential playmates based on this are just short-sighted. [sorry, my bad!]
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