[Alura]

[quote]Originally posted by LIZA:

[b]If you don't know your wife well enough to talk to her about ANYTHING, then your relationship isn't strong enough to think about swinging./B]

LIZA,I think you're exactly right about this, but that doesn't mean that a man should resign himself to never building their communication up to the point that he COULD talk to his wife about anything with no fear at all of her reaction.

Some of us who have made suggestions have done so with hopes that he and his wife can learn to improve the strength (communication is strength) of his marriage. That's what this thread is all about, in my opinion.

I'll second the motion on your reading, "Men are from Mars..." It's true we're equal, but we're also different. Besides, the book is fun!

Husband of Alura