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Originally posted by LIZA:
It seems to me if you live with someone every day of your life you would have a pretty good idea of their feelings and belief's on a number of subjects, including sex. |
Liza,
I take it you've never read
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Or have forgotten some of the self inflicted issues that men deal with, if you have read it.
Men generally try to get an idea in their head. Before they throw it out to be discussed. All the while, wondering how their spouse will react. That wondering ballons way out of proportion, as the days pass.
Of course, after a week of trying to figure all this out. It comes out sounding like a foreign language. And, nothing like we thought.
They even named a TV series after a mans thinking process. It's called:
Fear Factor LMAO
Communication is the key to this lifestyle. Just don't expect everyone to be able to communicate effectively. A lot of these men have valid concerns about their spouses reactions. I know I wish I had never brought the subject up with my ex. She made it her life mission to let everyone know what a sick pervert I was afterwards (her exact words).